Parsons' Posts

The Science of Laughter :)

2012-02-17T18:45:00.000-08:00

Robert Provine is considered to be one of the world’sleading researchers in the field of laughter.

This makes me rethink my major.

Provine has discovered that babies laugh 300 times a day,but adults only 20 times, genes influence our patterns of laughter, and that90% of giggles follow non-funny remarks.

Why would someone laugh at something that was not amusing?Turns out we use laughter much as some people use alcohol. It allows us to bondtogether in a shared experience. Thatexplains why people are 30% more likely to laugh when they are with someonethan when they are alone. It also helps us understand why the giggles are socontagious. And why sitcoms have laugh tracks.

Humor does have a dark side. When company leaders belittletheir subordinates, this negative behavior is perpetuated throughout thecompany.

On the other hand, the benefits of laughter have been welldocumented. Pain has been relieved, depression lifted, and a variety of otherills cured by a regimen of belly laughs.

So grab yourself a funny video, gather some friends, andstart smiling!

2012-01-31T10:10:00.000-08:00

Ways to Better Collaborate with Families

Catilin C. Edwards and Alexandra Da Fonte recently wrote anarticle published by the Council for Exceptional Children that describedeffective techniques to collaborate with parents. They have created afive-point plan for success.

Be Positive,Proactive, and Solution Oriented

Send home classroom expectations with positive and negative consequences.
Call after the first week of school to share a positive story.
Tell parents three positive comments for every negative one.
Send homework on a regular schedule so families can plan, including expectations and directions, and have parents sign a receipt.
Have a clear understanding of students’ disabilities, but remember each is an individual.
Offer solutions when discussing problems.

Respect Families’Roles and Cultural Backgrounds in Their Children’s Lives

Have parents complete an information sheet, including information about the disability and accommodations at home.
Send draft goals home prior to the meeting.
Ask if families would be more comfortable with an interpreter, if necessary.
Attend a cultural event to better understand the student’s background.

CommunicateConsistently, Listen to Families’ Concerns, and Work Together

Keep families informed of progress.
Develop an action plan to solve problems and remediate skills.
Don’t use labels when discussing the child.
Provide contact information, including phone numbers, email address, conference times, etc.
Set up a communication schedule at parent request.
Contact parents as soon as possible when problems arise.
Collaborate with other teachers to see how the student is doing in all classes.

Consider Simple,Natural Supports that Meet Individual Needs of Students

Compare supports used at home and at school.
Use individualized behavior supports.
Communicate changes in behavior supports, accommodations, etc.
Don’t use generalizations when describing the student.
Share information about community services that may help at home.

Empower Families withKnowledge and Opportunities for Involvement in the Context of Student’s GlobalNeeds

Share packet with community resources, support groups, etc.
Offer parents choices regarding educational decisions.
Ask parents what kinds of information would be most helpful, and provide it.
Offer parent trainings and educational classes.

These helpful suggestions can be used to improveparent/school relations.

*Edwards,C.C., & Da Fonte, A. (2012). The 5-Point Plan: Fostering SuccessfulPartnerships with Families of Students with Disabilities. Teaching Exceptional Children 44(3), 6-13.

Being Ignored Hurts

2012-01-28T16:40:00.000-08:00

My husband and I ran errands today. A salesman in a shoe stor asked my husband, "How are you today?" Instead of replying, "Fine." as I would have done, my husband looked at the employee's nametag. He responded, "Fine, Bob, how are you?".

T'he salesman stopped dead in his tracks and answered, "Great. Thank you for asking."

This young man has probably asked that question dozens of times a day. He apparently never had a response like that one.

Everyone likes to feel linked to other people. A recent study at Purdue University looked at what was required to make that connection.

Researchers discovered that it takes very little to make that connection. Something as easy as eye contact can make a difference.

On the other hand, people who were ignored as the research assistants "looked past" them, felt disconnected and alone.

I'm going to make more of an effort to make eye contact and recognize others, by name if possible. I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area. I know there are times when looking someone directly in the eye can be dangerous.

But I am rarely in that situation. Most of the time, I need to acknowledge the presence of others.

I suggest you do the same.

Book Review - "Cold River" by Liz Adair

2011-12-14T20:22:00.000-08:00

From Amazon.com:

Mandy Steenburg thinks her doctorate in education has prepared her to run any school district - until she tangles with the moonshine-making, coon-dog-owning denizens of a tiny district in Pacific Northwest timber country. She's determined to make a difference, but the local populace still looks to the former superintendent for leadership. When Mandy lands in the middle of an old feud and someone keeps trying to kill her, instinct tells her to run. And though she has to literally swim through perilous waters, she finds a reason to stay and chance the odds.

My Review:
Why did Mandy leave her last job and take one where her welcome is far less than enthusiastic? Who is trying to drive her away, and why? Will she follow her heart to a new romance, or return to the one she left behind? These questions will keep you devouring the pages until the dramatic conclusion.

I really enjoyed this book. Liz has created a town with interesting characters. I wasn't able to see any of the plot twists coming. If you enjoy romances, books filled with action, or an engrossing novel, this is the book for you.

It also makes a great Christmas gift!

Purchase your copy of Cold River here.

Learn more about Liz Adair on her blog.

FCC Disclaimer: I received a free digital copy of this book, but this did not influence the content of my review.

Best Colleges for Students with Learning Disabilities or ADHD

2011-11-25T16:44:00.001-08:00

One common worry for parents of children with learning disabilities or ADHD is about post-secondary education. Where can they go? What services will be provided? Can they be successful?

Bottom Line Personal Magazine recently ran an article listing colleges with programs for students who have learning disabilities (LD) or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Here's a short rundown:

Two Year Schools:

Dean College - Franklin, Massachusetts
Special Programs - Personalized Learning Services (tutoring), Arch Learning Community (improved academic skills), Pathway Learning Community (small classes), Program to transition to a 4-year school
www.Dean.edu

Landmark College - Putney, Vermont
Special Programs - Specially designed for LD/ADHD students--teaches students to overcome their disabilities and transfer to a 4-year school, smaller classes, tutorials, coaching programs
www.Landmark.edu

Four Year Schools:

Curry College - Milton, Massachusetts
Special Program - Program for Advancement of Learning (PAL)

Students applying through PAL don't need SAT/ACT scores
3 week summer session to ease transition to college
Strong support including help with homework

www.Curry.edu

Lynn University - Boca Raton, Florida
Special Program - Comprehensive Support Program

Tutorials
Study sessions
Special classes
Resources and accommodations

www.Lynn.edu

Southern Illinois University Carbondale - Carbondale, Illinois
Special Program - Achieve Program

Diagnostic evaluation
tutorials
Notetakers
Audio textbooks
Remedial Classes

www.siuc.edu

University of Arizona - Tucson, Arizona
Special programs - Strategic Alternative Learning Techniques (SALT), Disability Resource Center (DRC)

Facilities
Resources
Support

www.Arizona.edu

University of Denver - Denver, Colorado
Special Program - Learning Effectiveness Program (LEP)

Customized support
One-on-one counseling

www.du.edu

University of Indianapolis - Indianapolis, Indiana
Special Program - Baccalaureate for University of Indianapolis Learning Disabled (BUILD)

Minimum 2 hours individualized tutoring/week
Special Math & English classes

www.UIndy.edu

Need more information? Visit the individual sites. For more articles with good information like this, go to https://www.bottomlinesecrets.com/store/pubs/sub_blp.html for a trial subscription to Bottom Line Personal.

Taming Test Anxiety

2011-11-20T07:21:00.001-08:00

We live in a world of high-stakes testing. Even third graders face assessments that will determine if they can progress to fourth grade.

Many people become overly anxious about the tests they take. Some become so paralyzed they struggle to remember how to spell their own name.

My bouts with this type of fear came from external sources. While on the way to take my first test for teacher certification, my minivan refused to shift out of second gear. Fears of an enormous bill and temporary loss of transportation boiled in my mind. After arriving at the test site, I put my head down on the steering wheel and repeated my new mantra, "Don't think about the car, think about the test!"

During the second test, I needed to use the restroom. Only one person was allowed in the restroom at a time, even though people in different rooms were taking assessments for very different subjects. I was rather shocked when the hall monitor followed me into the restroom. I decided to take action, turning around and asking, "Do you want me to leave the stall door open?" This prompted the monitor to leave the room, giving me much-needed privacy.

My problems with the last critical assessment didn't start until I actually arrived in the testing room. I found I was seated in front of the pencil sharpener. The room was packed, so there was no way to request a new seat. Noises are very distracting to me, so I began to panic. I decided whenever someone was sharpening their pencil, I would take a break and stare at my shoes.

What can you do if you or your child suffers from test anxiety?

· Teachstudy skills, including using study guides, reviewing with a friend, andpracticing with games.

· Followa study schedule with specific goals, materials ready, and by creating anoutline of course material.

· Studyearly so the learner can attend tutorials to review difficult material.

· Useonline games for review. Many can be found at http://www.lynndparsons.com/method.htmlor check with the teacher.

· Teachtest-taking skills including the following:

o Memorydump—write down what you are afraid of forgetting (definitions, formulas,dates, mnemonics, etc.) on the test as soon as it begins.

o Doeasier questions first, then return to harder ones.

o Highlightkey instructional words related to the directions about details, types ofanswers requested, etc.

o Cancelout obvious wrong choices.

· Teachrelaxation skills such as use of a squeeze ball, arriving on time rather thanearly, controlling breathing, meditating and praying, taking breaks, andpositive self-talk.

· Givelots of encouragement during study time and just prior to the test.

Good luck, and remember--it's just a test, and they can't actually kill you when it's over!

Fiction - The Key to Understanding Others...and Changing Yourself

2011-11-14T19:36:00.001-08:00

According to "In the Minds of Others", an article by Keith Oatley in Scientific American Mind, reading fiction is entertaining. It provides an escape from your problems. But can it really help you psychologically?
Fiction can help improve your relationships with others. It can also change your personality and impact the happiness of your life.

When you read about the lives of others, including what they are thinking, helps you understand them. This allows you to build empathy and see another point of view. Computer programs use sophisticated technology to allow you to experience another world. Readers have done this for centuries.

The socially-withdrawn bookworm is a sterotype that still exists. But a study done in Toronto found that those who read the most fiction were better at recognizing emotions and interpreting social cues. Other studies revealed that reading fiction helped people solve logic problems or draw conclusions about social situations. The improvement was seen after as little as an hour of reading. On the other hand, children who watched many hours of television were less able to understand others.

People who read fiction on a regular basis also had better social connections than those who confined themselves to nonfiction. Your "sense of self" is also changed as you are more likely to become more open and perceptive about fellow humans.

Why all the benefits? The source is the emotional connection between the reader and the characters. This allows us to picture ourselves as part of the story, experiencing aspects of the plotline. Brain imaging studies reveal that when you read about a character sitting on a chair, for example, the reader's brain lights up as if he or she were performing the action. In short, we virtually live through good fiction. While we experience our own emotions in reaction to events, we are still tied to the story.

The takeaway? Get off the computer and go read a good book.

The LDS Disabilities Web Site--An Awesome Resource!

2011-11-02T17:22:00.000-07:00

The LDS Disabilities web site can be found here. Let's take a look at how this site can help parents, teachers, and church leaders.

There is a disability list. It is not meant to be exhaustive, but covers the general categories. One example is the mental illness category. Parents can be reminded not to take behavior related to the mental illness personally. Teachers can learn mental illness is not a punishment from God. Leaders will understand how to include that person in ward activities.

The family section lists specific help for parents, such as how to explain disabilities to siblings. This page is also for teachers, and they can discover that by babysitting, they can give the parents a chance to strengthen their marriage. Leaders can use information such as the advice to grandparents to counsel families.

The question and answer page has a link to statistics of how many members are affected by disabilities. Families will be encouraged to learn they are not alone. Teachers can take advantages of the resources section, and leaders can review doctrine and policies.

In the general information section, families can review the First Presidency statement about disabilities. Teachers and leaders will learn how to show respect for those with disabilities.

The leaders and teachers section also relates to families. They can share this information with ward members to increase understanding. Teachers will learn how to adapt lessons and manage classrooms effectively. Leaders will understand the importance of building a relationship of trust.

Accessible materials provides a resource for parents, teachers, and leaders. From audio scriptures to Braille and sign language materials, those with disabilities can access Church materials.

The final section, scriptures and quotes, gives inspiration to everyone. Take advantage of this wonderful resource that makes the Gospel available to everyone, regardless of ability. You'll find it helps you in ways you cannot yet imagine.

Book Review - "The Alias" by Mandi Tucker Slack

2011-10-15T04:00:00.000-07:00

From Amazon:
After a long and difficult divorce, Jacey thinks the worst is over. Little does she know she'll soon be forced to go undercover to protect her family, and in the process, she'll risk losing her identity, her future, and her heart. With a lightning pace, a good dose of humor, and a plot that's full of suspense, this thrilling novel is an edge-of-your-seat read.

My Review:
This is my kind of book! Mandi Tucker Slack gives us a book that moves quickly from one event to the next. You'll enjoy her characters and look forward to the next scene. Will Jacey's stalker find her and hurt her son? Can she keep her true identity a secret? This book will keep you up late until the end.

On a personal note, I was reading this just after I had broken my nose. This story was engaging enough that it kept my mind off the pain--thanks Mandi!

Want more information about Mandi Tucker Slack? Her blog is http://heyyouslackers.blogspot.com/.

You can purchase "The Alias" here. The Kindle version is only $3.99--quite a bargain. What are you waiting for? Go place your order!

Upcoming Promotions!

2011-10-10T07:01:00.000-07:00

Much of my time lately has been spent promoting (dis)Abilities and the Gospel. Next week will be a busy week as a result.

First, I'll be presenting a class on teaching methods that are effective for those with special needs. This will be held at the North Richland Hills Public Library on Tuesday, October 18. The class will be followed by a book signing

I leave the next morning to attent the Council for Educational Diagnostic Services national conference in Kansas City, Kansas. I'll be co-presenting a 2-hour workshop on The Art & Science of RtI for Behavior.

More appearances are in the works, so keep tuned!

Book Review - "Bloodborne" by Gregg Luke

2011-09-30T05:00:00.000-07:00

From Amazon.com:
One ordinary afternoon, research specialist Dr. Erin Cross steps into a local deli to get some lunch and nearly takes a bullet instead. Thanks to timely intervention from a former Marine, she walks away from the seemingly freak incident. But when she returns to find her lab under security lockdown and her apartment ransacked, she realizes the attack was anything but random. Erin can’t make sense of the threat, given her low profile after a disastrous H1N1 vaccine trial. She doesn’t know that her former colleague has used the virus to develop a potent bioweapon or that her recent research holds a key to his success. And she doesn’t know that his collaborators want her dead before she blows the whistle.

Fleeing for safety with her research in hand, Erin unravels the threats with help from the timely Marine, former Special Ops agent Sean Flannery. But the closer they come to finding answers, the more questionable Sean’s behavior becomes. His erratic moods and suspicious communications are more fitting for an enemy than a friend. And as the crisis comes to a head, Erin can’t be sure who harbors more secrets—the bioterrorists pursuing her or the one man who can give her protection.

My Review:
I really enjoyed Gregg's last book, "Blink of an Eye", so I eagerly awaited the launch of "Bloodborne". Clear your schedule, because you won't be able to put "Bloodborne" down. You will be yanked into the story from the first page. Gregg's vivid characters and intriguing plot twists will have you hooked from the beginning. His medical knowledge and writing style is reminiscent of Robin Cook in his prime. If you're looking for an escape to an exotic location in a book filled with head-spinning plot twists, go buy this one!

Other Opinions:
Bloodborne is classic Gregg Luke--sinister motives, gripping suspense, and intricate detail. His pacing will leave you breathless. --Josi Kilpack, author of the Sadie Hoffmiller Mystery series.
Bloodborne is a spellbinding, action-packed story with dynamic characters and an intriguing plot. Block out some time to read, because you won't be able to put this one down. --Erin Klinger, author of Between the Lines.

Check out the book trailer: www.youtube.com/watch?v=1BpIw5Q2-Ts
Get your copy of "Bloodborne" here

Author's site: http://www.greggluke.com/

FTC Disclaimer: I was given a free review copy, but this did not influence my review.

What Makes a Bully?

2011-09-28T16:22:00.000-07:00

Bullying is a hot topic right now. One thing that is in hot debate is what constitutes bullying. Experts state that bullying can be divided into three categories, including physical, verbal, and relationship.

Physical bullying can mean physically harming someone, or threatening to hurt them. It also includes taking or damaging the property of someone else. Forcing a person to do something against their will also falls into this category.

Verbal bullying can include anything from name-calling to teasing or insulting someone.

Relationship bullying takes place when one person refuses to talk to another or spreads lies or rumors about them.

One important part of deciding whether or not the actions of another are bullying is time. Incidents that happen once are unpleasant, but not bullying. Events must happen again and again over a long period of time to really be bullying.

Why do bullies do what they do? Power. If they can intimidate someone, they have control over them.

Watch this space soon for information about what do do about bullies.

Today's Winners!

2011-09-25T06:29:00.000-07:00

Since the comments were so positive, I decided to give away TWO copies of "(dis)Abilities and the Gospel"!!!

The first winner is.....Joan Sowards! Email me your address, and I'll get it right out!

The second winner is.....Betsy Love! I'll send your copy off as soon as I get your snail mail address.

Welcome to all the new followers, and watch for a BIG giveaway coming in October!

September Blog Hop!

2011-09-22T04:00:00.000-07:00

Welcome to the September Blog Hop! Celebrate the beginning of fall with me and my blogger friends by hopping around, visiting our sites,and entering our contests! There are no limits - you can enter the contest on every blog. With over 40 blogs participating, that's over 40 prizes you could win. Just click on the links below to move on to thenext blog. On my blog, you can win … a personalized autographed copy of "(dis)Abilities and the Gospel: How to Bring People with Special Needs Closer to Christ!

Would you like to win this prize? You just need to do two things. 1. Become a follower of this blog. 2. Leave me a comment in the trail and tell me whyyou'd like to win this prize. That's it! You are now entered. The contest ends onSaturday night, September 24th, at midnight MST, and the winner will be contacted shortly thereafter. Please either leave your e-mail address in the comment trail or make sure it's visible through your profile so I can contact you to tell you that you're the lucky winner. Now go visit my other friends ...

September BlogHop Participants

1.Tristi Pinkston, LDS Author
2. Joyce DiPastena
3. I Am A Reader, Not A Writer
4. Mandi Slack
5. Michael D. Young
6. SixMixed Reviews
7. PamWilliams
8. Laurie Lewis
9. Kristy Tate
10. Marilyn Yarbrough
11. Stacy Coles
12. Kristie Ballard
13. Lynn Parsons
14. Pushing Past the Pounds
15. Sheila Staley
16. CCindy Hogan
17. Jamie Thompson
18. Jaclyn Weist
19. Cathy Witbeck
20. Secret Sisters Mysteries
21. Tamera Westhoff
22. Tina Scott
23. Lynnea Mortensen
24. Danyelle Ferguson aka Queen of the Clan
25. Jeanette A. Fratto
26. Bonnie Harris
27. Melissa Lemon
28. Mary Ann Dennis
29. Stephanie Black
30. Jane Still
31. Janice
32. Laura Bastian
33. Tamara Bordon
34. Betsy Love
35. Maria Hoagland
36. Amber Robertson
37. Debbie Davis
38.
39. Christy Monson
40. Carolyn Frank
41. Rebecca Birkin
42. Melissa Cunningham
43. Emily L. Moir
44. Ronda Hinrichsen
45. LisaAsanuma
46. Joan Sowards
47. JordanMcCollum
48. Diane StringamTolley

Learn more about September Blog Hop here.GetThe Code

To Tell the Truth

2011-09-20T04:40:00.000-07:00

Last year, the registrar at my school had to deal with so many fake addresses she walked around muttering, "Everybody lies!"

While this is probably not true, sometimes we feel like we've had all the lies we can take. How can we tell if someone is telling the truth?

Wray Herbert, in the current issue of Scientific American Mind, has figured out three strategies to identify a lie in progress.

The first method is to ask for the story to be told in reverse. It takes much more mental effort to lie than to tell the truth because you must create something, determine if it sounds real, and to remember what you fabricated. Asking for the details in a backwards order is so mentally exhausting that the liar will usually trip himself up.

Technique number two involves constant eye contact. This also requires additional mental effort, which is why liars tend to look at an object rather than a person. This distraction will also cause most liars to make a mistake.

Asking for the liar to draw a picture is the final method. Having to provide visual-spatial information is also mentally taxing, leading to inconsistencies and a lack of detail that proves the lie.

We want to trust the people we meet. But it's good to know who can and cannot be trusted. Honestly!

Good Stress, Bad Stress

2011-09-17T07:29:00.000-07:00

When we say we're stressed, it's usually a bad thing. Some stress can have a positive impact on our lives. Too much, and it can take a toll on our health, performance, and relationships.

When is stress good? When it acts as a catalyst to bring out our best performance. Think piano recital, high-stakes testing, or an important job interview. The stress of the upcoming event encourages us to prepare well, and helps us focus in the moment so we do our best.

Too much stress, and your body reacts poorly. Heart rate speeds up, hormones race through your body, you start to sweat . . . and you may fall apart.

A recent study in Scientific American Mind revealed that most of us would earn an F in stress preparedness. How do we better prepare for stress? Robert Epstein, PhD, suggests six steps:

1. Seek and kill--identify what's stressing you out and get rid of it. For example, my wireless printer at home wasn't working. So I did what I had to do to get it fixed. Stressor gone.

2. Commit to the positive. What is your negative reaction to stress? Drugs, alcohol, overeating? Seek out a more positive reaction such as renewing friendships, participating in relaxing activities, or exercising.

3. Be your own personal secratary. Learn to make lists. I've started doing that at work, and as I have completed more, I feel less stress.

4. Immunize yourself. Use exercise and thought management to control yourself in stressful situations. I keep repeating to myself that I can handle the situation in question. After all, I died twice a couple of years ago, and came back from that.

5. Make a little plan. Set time aside each morning to plan your day. This lets you both accomplish more and lower your stress level.

6. Make a big plan. Planning your future gives you more control, and as you see the big picture, the problems of today will seem smaller when put into perspective.

Go reduce your stress, and teach these steps to your children!

I Remember...

2011-09-09T18:18:00.000-07:00

It's a weekend of remembrance. No American will forget where they were when they saw the news.

I was working as an assistant librarian in a high school library. The day started out as many others had. A teacher came in and told us that a plane had hit one of the twin towers. We assumed the pilot of a small plane had a heart attack and the plane crashed as a result.

More teachers came down and asked that they bring their classes down to watch the news unfold. When the school was built, no cable television wire had been laid. Strange for a two-year-old building. One of the techs figured out how to rig the televisions to show local news channels. I tried repeatedly to get on national news sites, but they had crashed.

About the time we got TV reception, the towers fell. We hoped there had been enough time, but news at that point was sketchy at best.

After the news of the unimaginable became apparent, the students started reacting. Kids were not allowed to use school phones, but when they came to me and said things like, "My dad is a pilot. I don't know where he's flying today," I just dialed the number and handed them the handset. How could I not--I called my own mother after getting home that day.

I also walked countless children to the packed counselor's office. Five counselors for 2,000 children were spread very thin that day.

My girls were in elementary and middle school at the time. The younger children were protected, but enough middle schoolers were aware of some of the events. On boy announced to the class that skyscrapers in Dallas had been attacked and that the entire city was on fire. My daughter immediately became distraught because her father worked in Dallas and called me. I tried to reassure her that I had just spoken to him, but she was unconvinced. He had to call her so she could have proof he was fine.

My oldest son was in Mexico on a mission for our church. Missionaries aren't usually allowed to watch television, but he was given permission to watch CNN to personally witness the attacks on our country.

The terror and emotional suffering experienced by the high school students and staff are permanently imprinted on my soul, as was the silent frozen days that followed.

What can we take away from the tragedy? The need for understanding rather than confrontation and love rather than hate. Remember how you felt and use that as an impetus to make the world better for those around you.

Respect

2011-08-31T18:25:00.000-07:00

I've been thinking about respect lately. How do we develop respect for others, demonstrate that respect, and get others to respect us.

Certain professions naturally garner respect. Most people seem to respect doctors and other professions that are highly paid. Others respect those with high positions in society.

What is worthy of your respect? Wealth can disappear, as can privileges and placement. It's difficult to respect intangible things such as honor and valor.

I choose to respect people and organizations who demonstrate ethics and principles I admire.

How do you demonstrate your respect? I find the best ways to show respect is to listen and demonstrate common courtesy.

Commanding respect is another matter. I don't believe respect can be commanded at all. It may be earned through courteous behavior and outward demonstrations of inward beliefs. If you behave in a respectful manner, I believe others will usually treat you with respect.

During the past few days, many have treated me disrespectfully. I hope to encourage better behavior by setting a good example. If this is unsuccessful, I hope to explain things to the rest.

Book Review - Latter Rain

2011-08-30T05:00:00.000-07:00

Paperback: 305 pages
Publisher: Castle Mountain Press (November 19, 2010)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 098271081X
ISBN-13: 978-0982710814
Product Dimensions: 7.8 x 5.1 x 1 inches

From Amazon:
The Latter Rain explores the symbols and types of the Book of Isaiah, creating a framework that can then be applied to other books of the Bible, helping the reader perceive meaning that was once obscured in symbolism. One such symbolic type is that of rain. While this type is not exclusive to Isaiah, it is used by Isaiah to symbolize the communication from God to man. In Deuteronomy, the Lord himself explains this concept: Deuteronomy 32:1-3 1 GIVE ear, O ye heavens, and I will speak; and hear, O earth, the words of my mouth. 2 My doctrine shall drop as the rain, my speech shall distil as the dew, as the small rain upon the tender herb, and as the showers upon the grass: 3 Because I will publish the name of the LORD: ascribe ye greatness unto our God. The term, Latter Rain, therefore means a period of time in the last days when the Lord will again pour out his spirit upon his children on the earth, thus leading them to truth and understanding. This book clarifies these and other concepts pertaining to the last days. Through a methodical analysis of various books contained in the Bible, the reader is able to view the attributes and characteristics of God's communications to his prophets and disciples in ancient times, and to use these observations to predict what one should expect to occur in the period of the Latter Rain. Castle Mountain Press is proud to introduce the book The Latter Rain. Although many books have been written about the prophecies of Isaiah, this book not only correctly identifies the symbols and types found in Isaiah, but uses this new information to make sense of the rest of the Bible. The reader of The Latter Rain, whether familiar with the scriptures or not, comes away from the experience with a completely new perspective on what the ancient prophets are saying about our day and age.

My review:
James Conis has spent years of study to link prophecies of Isaiah to other portions of the Bible. The sheer volume of information in this book reveals how dedicated Conis has been to this task.

Conis has used information from Isaiah in an attempt to explain both ancient and modern events. He likens lack of spiritual information to a physical drought, and Latter Rain represents a return to revelation.

Conis relies on his own conclusions rather than using the explanations of others. While I did not agree with many of his scriptural connections, this book is an interesting read.

You can purchase Latter Rain here.

Thoughts from the First Day of School

2011-08-22T18:53:00.000-07:00

Today was the first day of school in my district, as in many others. Adults flash back to memorable first days, anticipate the same for their children, and worry about what might be.

This flood of conflicting emotions often boils over. When it does, school staff members are often the ones burned.

A few reminders to keep in mind during this school year:

Educators do not go into the field for money or glory. There isn't any. They do it for the kids.
School staff members are not perfect. We make mistakes, as do you. Let's forgive each other and move on.
We probably don't know what made you unhappy at your last school, and don't appreciate being held responsible for things outside our control.
People who work in schools want the best outcome for all students. We don't want children to be unsuccessful.
Many teachers act as surrogate parents, purchasing clothing and school supplies, giving guidance, and watching children when their families are delayed after school.
We just want a chance to do the best we can. Please give it to us.

How's this for a proposal: Let's look for the best in each other and work together for the sake of your child. Please leave a positive comment!

Two Book Reviews - "Key of Kilenya" and "Huber Hill and the Dead Man's Treasure"

2011-08-13T05:58:00.000-07:00

Andrea Pearson, author of "Key of Kilenya"

About Andrea:
Andrea is an avid reader and outdoor-er, who loves traveling. She and her husband (AKA Mr. Darcy) were married only a few months ago, and have settled near a river that someday will probably overflow and flood their house.

It took her nearly a lifetime to do so (nine years), but she graduated with a bachelor of science degree in Communications Disorders from Brigham Young University. She plans to open a flying bicycle shop eventually, but for the time being, she is happy teaching orchestra to elementary students.

From the publisher:
Jacob Clark's life is thrown into chaos when he discovers a path to a different world near his small-town home. The creatures of this new world are strange and have odd customs, and he is surprised to learn that everyone knows everything about him. Even the evil, immortal Lorkon, who stole the Key of Kilenya. They are jealous of Jacob and wish to control powers he doesn't know he possesses.

My review:

Andrea Pearson has created a fascinating new world filled with magical creatures and a challenging landscape. Jacob Clark accidentally enters this strange world to find he is not only expected, but has an important quest. This action-filled and imaginative book will hold you in the grips of a dangerous new world until you discover if Jacob can recover the Key of Kilenya.

The author's blog can be found at http://www.kilenyaseries.blogspot.com.
To purchase a hard copy of "Key of Kilenya," go to http://www.kilenyaseries.com/p/purchase-information.html.

"Huber Hill and the Dead Man's Treasure"by B.K. Bostick

From the publisher:
When his grandfather dies, Huber Hill is devastated—until he opens Grandpa Nick's mysterious box. An old gold coin and directions to a hidden Spanish treasure send him and his friends off on an mind-blowing adventure, but he's not the only one on the hunt. Filled with dangerous animals and cryptic puzzles, this book will have you on the edge of your seat until the last page.

My review:
Huber has a difficult life. A bully picks on him constantly, he can’t attract the attention of the girl he likes, his twin sister makes him look like a weakling, and his parents fight constantly.

Just when he thought things couldn’t get any worse, Huber’s beloved grandfather dies. Huber inherits a map, a journal, and a mysterious gold coin. Huber is soon off on the adventure of a lifetime as he tries to beat a mysterious Spaniard to the treasure.

B.K. Bostick's novel will be a fun and interesting read for both boys and girls. The nonstop action coupled with the realities of life in middle school will keep them reading and wanting more. This book would also be a high-interest book for high school students with disabilities.

The amazing web site created for this novel can be found at http://deadmanstreasure.com/#/home. It has information for educators, games, media, and more.

Purchase this book at http://www.amazon.com/Huber-Hill-Dead-Mans-Treasure/dp/1599559110 or http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/huber-hill-and-the-dead-mans-treasure-b-k-bostick/1100820924

Preparing for the New School Year

2011-08-05T14:34:00.000-07:00

It's that time of year again. Parents are rushing to sales to get their children equipped with crayons, glue, pencils, and notebook paper. Kids get to try on new school shoes. Trips to the store are made for new lunchboxes and backpacks.

It's wonderful that millions of parents are doing what they can, often with limited budgets, to prepare their children for school. But more important than physical readiness is psychological preparation.

Mental planning is important for both children and parents. Remember what this time of year was like when you were a child. Try to identify your fears and concerns. You may be additionally anxious if your youngster will be attending a new school.

How can you lower your trepidation? Talk to parents of children in the school and find out what helped their little ones transition to a new building. Remember that millions of children move to new schools without any problems, and that many anticipated problems never materialize.

Do not race down to the school demanding to meet with your child's teacher. First of all, most teachers are not on duty yet, and they deserve to finish their vacations in peace. Secondly, schedules for junior high and high schools are generally not set until a couple of days before school begins, so no one on campus has any idea which faculty members will teach your child. Have faith in your little learner that he or she can handle age-appropriate school activities.

Take some time with your child to discuss the upcoming year. Find out what he or she is anticipating or dreading. Your discussion can include goals and ways to make 2011-2012 better than 2010-2011. This will help reduce fears.

If you're still worried, just keep chanting, "It's going to be OK. It's going to be OK."

Upcoming Book Signings and Events!

2011-07-28T18:35:00.000-07:00

August 9

2-4 PM Danyelle will be signing with author and musician C.S. Bezas at Crowley's Book Store @ The Quad 1485 Poleline Rd., Twin Falls, ID

August 10

Danyelle will be signing with authors Karen Hoover and Heather Justesen at The Purple Cow Book Store 992 N. Main St. Tooele, UT

August 19

Lynn will be signing at the Brigham Young University bookstore during education week. 11 AM - 1 PM on Friday.

August 26

Danyelle and author Shannon Groves will be signing and participating in a fundraiser for Special Olympics at Mommy Shop 14870 Metcalf Ave. Overland Park, KS.

September 17

Lynn will be participating in a fundraiser to purchase books for special education classes at Bedford Junior High at the Barnes & Noble 861 NE Mall Blvd Hurst, TX 76053. Come from 10 AM - 6 PM for a book signing, cupcake decorating contest, art contest, and musical performances!

October 18

Lynn will be speaking at the North Richland Hills Public Library 9015 Grand Avenue, North Richland Hills, TX 76180 and signing books.

Book Review: Safe Money Millionaire

2011-07-23T06:00:00.000-07:00

From Amazon:
The "Safe Money Millionaire" debunks the financial wisdom that has cost Americans trillions in losses in the stock market. Now more than ever baby boomers and Americans saving for retirement are looking for safety for their money rather than chasing returns on Wall Street. In this book we crush the financial myths ranging from 401(k)’s being a good place for retirement savings, to diversifying with Mutual Funds, to keeping your credit score high and getting a low interest rate. The solution is a predictable, easy to follow plan to growing wealthy without risking money on Wall Street, reducing or eliminating interest paid to banks and credit card companies, plus protecting yourself from taxes that can ravage retirement savings in qualified plans.

I don't have a degree in economics, and am not a financier. But everyone knows that financial news of the last ten years has made us more uncertain of the future than ever. Unscrupulous members of the financial world have made retirement savings evaporate, encouraged overspending on homes, and manipulated the stock market. Those who continue to be financially solvent worry about their jobs and how they will ever be able to retire.

Brett Kitchen and Ethan Kap have exposed the secrets of Wall Street. Using real life examples, they demonstrate how playing the stock market and traditional retirement savings are not the best option. Kitchen & Kap show you a less risky way to grow your wealth in such a way that it lasts at least as long as you do.

This quick read is easy to understand for everyone. Included are instructions to obtain a free financial blueprint designed especially for you. That alone is worth far more than the cover price.

FTC Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book, but this did not influence my review.

No More Labels - Just Eligibilities

2011-07-19T16:23:00.000-07:00

I frequently visit with parents about labels. As an educational diagnostician, I am required to justify placing or keeping students in special education by giving them a label. If I don't identify a disability, I can't offer services.

Parents are concerned about labels. They are concerned that their child will be seen as a diagnosis, not a person. I try to explain that this is something the school is required to do, but labels have such a negative connotation, it's hard to overcome.

Labels can be hurtful. Educators rejoiced at the recent federal law that eliminated the term "mental retardation" on favor of "intellectual disability". Let's move away from labels towards eligibilities.

Eligibilities have many purposes. They get you services, both in and out of school. Educators and medical professionals get some information about why a particular student is struggling and what help he or she may need. Funding for many programs are based on the number of eligible students in different categories.

No one likes to think they've been labelled. We are so much more than one description. Let's start using the term "eligibility" so we can remember this is just something that gets people what they need.

Guilt and Disabilities

2011-07-11T12:06:00.000-07:00

When parents discover their child has a disability, one of the most common reactions is to look for a cause. I know. I did it.

When my daughter didn't speak according to average developmental milestones, I blamed myself. I thought I hadn't talked enought to her, exposed her to enough language, or had done something else wrong. Later we would discover her hearing problems, which appeared intermittently. No one was at fault--just one of those things that happen.

Parents of children diagnosed with autism believe vaccines were the cause. This is because of the timing of the diagnosis. Despite proof that the study that incorrectly identified a link between autism and vaccines, the belief persists.

My mother still feels guilty because she gave me children's aspirin when I had chickenpox. I didn't have Reye's syndrome, and suffered no long-term effects. But she still feels guilty about a choice she made based on the best information available at the time. This is something mothers do.

Recently I tweeted about the results of a study that identified how many cases of autism were caused by environmental factors. One mother became incensed because she saw this as a scientific effort to blame parents, rather than research into prevention.

Scientists don't examine diseases to make mothers feel guilty. They do it to advance knowledge.

Many parents get stuck in a cycle of guilt. Some may over accomodate their child in an effort to "make it up" to them. They may vent their frustration to the professionals trying to help their youngster.

Guilt is not a productive emotion unless it keeps you from doing something wrong. Guilt kept me paralyzed for a time. Guilt did nothing to help my daughter.

After I made the choice to stop feeling guilty and help my daughter, she began to improve. Despite a later educator's belief that my daughter would not learn to read, she recently completed her freshman year at a leading university. Unmodified.

Get out of the guilt trap and you will be a better parent.

Book Signings and News!

2011-06-15T07:40:00.000-07:00

Saturday, June 18, you can meet BOTH of the authors of (dis)Abilities and the Gospel in Dallas or Fort Worth!

From 11-2 we'll be at Moon's Bookstore in Preston Square in Dallas, and from 4-6, we'll be at the Barnes and Noble at 401 Commerce Street in Fort Worth!

We'll have books, treats, and fun! See you there!

We've also had many positive reviews for (dis)Abilities and the Gospel! Here are a few:

Amazon

http://imtopsyturvy.com/

Barnes and Noble

Christine Bryant

Goodreads

Tamara Westhoff

Tristi Pinkston

Computer Games Help Stroke Victims Recover

2011-05-16T16:51:00.000-07:00

Many people who have had a stroke struggle to regain full control of hand and arm movement. Researchers have discovered video games to help patients recover. Improvements were found in hand/arm coordination, accuracy, and speed. The games also helped restore grip precision and individual finger motion.

Patients played for 2-3 hours per day for eight days. Those who played the games had better reach control, more stable muscle usage, and more smooth, efficient motion. Tests showed more finger control and speed.

The control group, who had uninjured arms, showed no improvement. Patients with a second hand/arm injury also demonstrated no gains in the arm not used for gaming.

The gamers showed improvements of 20-22% over eight days. Certainly worth investigating for more patients.

Acne Drug Miracle for Intellectual Disabilities?

2011-05-09T17:18:00.000-07:00

Minocycline, long used as a drug to treat acne, is showing promise in the treatment of intellectual disabilities associated with Fragile X syndrome, autism, and other intellectual disorders.

This medication reduces brain inflammation and suppresses MMP-9, a protein commonly overproduced in the brains of those with Fragile X syndrome. This protein interfers with normal neural development. Other side effects include a graying of the teeth. A few study participants also demonstrated blood test results indicative of an autoimmune disorder, but no other symptoms.

Trials of other medications to treat intellectual disabilities are also underway. Three inhibit production of another overproduced protein. The fourth appears to reduce hyperactivity and hypersensitivity. This medication, Arbaclofen, may help the same symptoms in those with autism.

Book Review - Crazy Daze of Motherhood by Jane Isfeld Still and Contest!

2011-04-09T04:39:00.000-07:00

My review:

This book had an unexpected impact on my life. I had taken it along to read during a flight from Philadelphia to Dallas. I was reading (and chuckling) as the very full flight boarded. I was feeling lucky that the two seats next to me were empty when the final passenger boarded. She took the aisle seat, but with the middle seat unoccupied, I was still feeling very fortunate.

My seatmate took one look at the book's cover and asked if I were a mother. I hadn't noticed she was upset during the flurry of stowing luggage and getting settled. This stranger needed kleenex and thought that a mother would have some. I had felt impressed to purchase two packages, so I was well prepared. This encounter set the stage for a delightful conversation all the way to Dallas.

Well, I didn't get the book read until I got home. This is not only a very funny look at motherhood, but is also a book with which many parents will be able to relate. I thought I was the only one living the "I Love Lucy" life!

"Crazy Daze of Motherhood" is a perfect gift for Mother's Day, birthdays, or any time your favorite mother needs a lift. It's the antidote to those dreaded Mother's Day talks about those perfect mothers who bottle fruit, make their own clothing from rags, and can fix their own plumbing while wearing heels and pearls. While you're at it, get a copy for yourself!

From the back cover:

A mother's day is filled with all kinds of emergencies, from bumps and bruises to hospital stays. Find the perfect way to recover from your own family's little emergencies with Jane Isfeld Still's latest book on the hilarious daily challenges of a mother in the fray. You're sure to laugh and cry as you celebrate the joys of motherhood.

About the Author:
Jane is married to Rick Still, who she believes has the distinction of being the only man in history brave enough to give her earwax candles for her birthday. They had six children in eight years, and while her children were growing up, she discovered she had a great sense of humor. At least that was her take. Rick once said to her, "Honey, you know all those real corny things you say all the time? Who ever thought you could make money at it?" Her son Adam once told her, "Mom could you please stop telling jokes to my friends? It's really embarrassing." One of Jane's philosophies is, "You're not doing your job unless your children are worried about being seen in public with you."

To read more about Jane and her exploits visit her website at janeisfeldstill.com or her blog at janeisfeldstill.blogspot.com

Jane's Contest:

You can win a fun prize from Jane to help celebrate the release of her book. Just go to her blog at http://www.janeisfeldstill.blogspot.com and become a follower, and then leave her a comment and tell her that you're a new follower. You could win:

1. Mother's Daze basket, soap, chocolate, lotion, decorative candles, and recipe cards

2. Box of blank cards with a smattering of Canadian chocolate

3. Chocolate

Book Reviews - Smartboys Series by Rebecca Shelley

2011-04-06T06:00:00.000-07:00

How could you resist a book with the title Bees in my Butt? The sequels, including We Flushed it Down the Potty, I Took a Burp, and I Lost My Head, are equally entertaining.

Bees in my Butt introduces us to the "Smartboys Club", a group of youngsters that are eager to learn, but not to stand out from the other students. Johnny Lovebird (Monkey to his friends) is having, well, some digestive troubles at school caused by a dinner of Mexican food the night before. This could be very embarassing, but Monkey manages to turn this into an advantage when ninjas attack the school.

We Flushed it Down the Potty continues the adventure. Can the friends take on some bullies and find a missing heirloom wedding ring? Once again, Rebecca Shelley has made it cool to be smart while creating an adventure that elementary school children will love.

I Took a Burp introduces us to a new girl in school, Sandra. After she disappears during school, the Smartboys Club members must work together to solve the mystery. Could she really be a spy?

I Lost my Head, the fourth book in the series, reunites the friends in a spooky Halloween tale. Monkey and his friends must work together to rid the school library of a ghost and keep Monkey in the school.

What a fun series, and it's not over yet. Begin your collection of the Smartboys Club books here.

New Contest!

2011-04-04T05:01:00.000-07:00

(dis)Abilities and the Gospel: How to Bring People with Special Needs Closer to Christ

"(dis)Abilities and the Gospel: A Guide for Parents and Teachers" will be published on May 6, 2011!

This guide helps families, religious leaders, and church teachers include those with disabilities in their congregations. It includes tips for a happier family life, descriptions of the most common types of disabilities, and

In honor of Autism Awareness Month, for every ten autographed copies preordered through this blog, I will donate one copy to a charity, school, or public library.

How will this work? The names of those who preorder will be put in a hat, and one in ten will be selected to choose which organization, school, or library will receive a free autographed copy!

So, click on the link to the left and order your copy now!

Getting fit!

2011-01-14T18:03:00.000-08:00

CSN Stores, an online group of more than 200 stores, has asked me to do another product review. I'm thrilled because I enjoy shopping there when I need wall art and decor, personal items, and school supplies.

Well, it's that time of year again. Many people are trying to lose weight, myself included. I even joined a "Biggest Loser" challenge at work. One big challenge is finding time to exercise. I'm looking for something to put in my office to use when I have a free minute to relieve stress and boost my metabolis.

I've decided to try a small step machine. This is the Stamina Inside Pro, and it had very good reviews.

It's available for $45, a $139 value, and there's free shipping! Watch this space for information about how quickly it arrived and how well it works. I'm going to try it out, as will other members of my family. I may even let some teachers have a turn--probably a better idea than the chocolate-filled "stress can" I've had in my office.

Book Review - "Sun Tunnels and Secrets" by Carole Thayne Warburton

2010-12-30T09:26:00.000-08:00

From Amazon.com:
"On a trip to the Sun Tunnels in the Utah desert, Norma and her sisters find a body on the side of the road. But this awful discovery turns out to be the least of their problems. Norma's husband just passed on, and she learns he kept a secret from her for sixty years. LaRue is keeping a secret from Norma. The sisters' young friend Tony is keeping a secret about his famous father, and Tony's mother is keeping a secret of her own. Tony is secretly in love with his friend Kelli, who recently escaped from a polygamist cult. And who is the mysterious young car thief with whom Norma feels a special connection? Everything converges in Grouse Creek at the Fourth of July celebration. Will secrets prove everyone's undoing? "

A group of sisters finds a body in the desert. A young girl escapes from a polygamous cult. A mysterious young man steals a series of cars while searching for his missing girlfriend, who is pregnant with another man's child. A cowboy nurtures a hidden crush. These characters meet in a small Utah town, and their relationships will be changed forever by secrets.

I really enjoyed this book. The author has created vivid characters who are entertaining, touching, and completely believable. I was sorry to see it end.

Book Review: "Oh, Say Can You See?" by L.C. Lewis

2010-12-18T04:00:00.000-08:00

Oh, Say Can You See? is the fourth installment in L.C. Lewis' Freemen and Dreamers series. Although it continues the story of the American Revolution, it has been written as a stand-alone book. You will have no problem reading this book even if you haven't seen the previous works. But after you read Oh, Say Can You See?, you'll want to have the rest of the series.

The British have burned the capitol building, a rag-tag, untrained American army struggles against much better trained and equipped British soldiers. Baltimore will be the next target. Will it also fall to the enemy?
Francis Scott Key takes time from his diplomatic duties to pen an epic poem recording this important moment. Set to music, the anthem spreads across the infant nation and gives new life to the American struggle.

You will be drawn into the story by events, but want to continue to read because of the characters. L.C. Lewis weaves together historical figures and fictional characters in a masterful way that allows the reader to have a sense of what it was like to live during that critical time in American history. The author gives us a glimpse of a war that was deeply personal on many levels, and helps us understand the tremendous sacrifices made for our future.

My only challenge with this book was keeping it away from my college-age children long enough to read it myself.

Makes a great gift, and speaking of gifts, take a look at the contest posted on the sidebar to the left. Enter to win yourself a beautiful necklace designed for this book launch. Good luck!

"Perilous" by Tamara Hart Heiner--Out Today!!!!!

2010-11-16T04:05:00.000-08:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=woLxsz6KPp0
Today is the release date for Perilous, a young adult novel by Tamara Hart Heiner!

Jaci Rivera lives the life of a (relatively) carefree college student, except for Amanda, a pushy neighbor. Everything unexpectely changes when she manages to catch a theif red-handed. Next thing Jaci knows, she and her friends have been kidnapped and taken on a 2,000 mile odyssey across the Canadian border.

You will find this book impossible to put down as the captives escape and are tracked by agents of the kidnapper. You will be on the edge of your seat, and not want the book to end. Fortunately, Tamara Hart Heiner is working on a sequel!

I can't wait to give this to my daughters for Christmas--they're 18 and 22.

You can buy Perilous at Amazon.com, and be sure to check out the book trailer here! Tamara also has some great contests on her blog--win signed copies of her book, or a Kindle!

Backpack a Winner!

2010-09-27T18:22:00.000-07:00

Tami loves her new backpack from CSN stores. It's well-padded to protect her laptop, has plenty of pockets to hold her engineering tools, and is strong enough to hold her big textbooks!

Tami and her roomates think it's pretty good-looking, too! It's comfortable, well-made, and lightweight.

Ordering was fast and easy. Tami was able to take a good look at every choice and pick the one she liked best. Her order arrived in a couple of days--in plenty of time for school.

Check out everything from backpacks to bistro sets! Take a look at CSN Stores for yourself!

There's even a contest to brighten up your ugly office. Enter today!

Back to School Backpack Put to the Test

2010-08-25T19:49:00.000-07:00

In honor of the return to school, I'm testing a new backpack. Actually, my daughter, Tami, will be trying it out at Brigham Young University-Idaho.

Tami will choose from the wide selection available at CSN Stores, a group of over 200 stores that sells everything from bistro sets to . . . well, backpacks! Take a look at CSN Stores for yourself!

What qualities does a busy college student need in a backpack? Room for a laptop? A water bottle pouch? Space for an MP3 player? Does the bag need to be pretty? Sturdy? Waterproof?

Coming soon--Tami's choice along with her criteria. After she's tried it for a while, we'll see a review! Comments from her friends will also be included.

Meanwhile, your have plenty of time to shop 200+ stores at CSN.com!

For the FTC: The backpack was provided through a gift certificate from CSN stores, but this will not influence the review.

Read "Chocolate Roses" for a Sweet Treat!

2010-08-07T06:58:00.000-07:00

From Amazon.com:

"Janie Rose Whitaker's world revolved around her chocolate shop until Roger Wentworth and his young daughter moved into the apartment across from Janie's. Anyone would think Roger fit the mold of the "perfect" guy, but soon Janie discovers secrets that could keep them apart forever. Though she resists getting involved in Roger's complicated life, they are drawn further into a bittersweet relationship.

You will laugh, cry, and crave chocolate as you read this LDS paraody of the classic novel Jane Eyre."

Many authors are currently rewriting Jane Austin's works with a modern twist. Most of those are thinly-disguised updates that are poor imitations of the original. "Chocolate Roses", however is fresh and original. Janie Rose Whitaker is a complex and interesting character, a mix of independence and self-doubt.

Joan Sowardsmanages to infuse this story with tragedy, comedy, and romance. Not only will LDS readers find a clean, compelling, and fun read, but this story can be enjoyed by readers of all faiths. Take your time and savor this book just like gourmet chocolate.....without the calories!

I enjoyed this book so much I ordered Joan's previous book, "Haunt's Haven", and am in the middle of savoring every word.

How Much Have You Changed?

2010-08-05T18:42:00.000-07:00

Researchers at University of California, Riverside, the Oregon Research Institute and University of Oregon claim that personality traits in children can still be recognized in them as adults. Children's personalities were rated by their teachers, then this information was compared to videotapes 40 years later.

Verbally fluent children were ranked as higher in intelligence and seen as more in control as adults. Youngsters with lower fluency became adults who sought advice and gave up when faced with problems.

Adults who were cheerful were adaptable as children and adults who spoke negatively about themselves struggled with new situations in their youth.

Impulsive chidren became talkative adults while the more controlled were more timid and shy. No surprise to any of their teachers, I'm sure .

Insecure adults were more humble as children, while condescending adults came from self-confident children.

So, don't expect many surprises at that high school reunion!

Contest Winner!

2010-07-12T06:00:00.000-07:00

And the winner is ......(drumroll, please!) Bonnie! I hope you enjoy spending your $40 gift certificate! Email me at ldparsons60@gmail.com and send me your email address. We'll get that gift certificate right out to you!

Many thanks to CSN stores for sponsoring this contest!

New Contest! Win a $40 Gift Certificate!

2010-06-28T07:06:00.000-07:00

Enter to win a $40 gift certificate good for use in any of CSN's more than 200 online stores! Whether you need dining room furniture, housewares, baby items, office supplies, or new shoes, CSN has a store for you.

Ready to win? Here's how:

1. Become a new follower on my blog for five entries.

2. Post a comment telling me how you'd like to spend your gift certificate for one entry (you can post a different entry for this each day).

3. Tweet about this contest or post it on Facebook for two entries each.

4. Find something you love here and post a comment about it for one entry (you can find something new every day).

5. Post a link to this on your blog for the duration of this contest (5 entries).

6. Be sure to post a comment and tell me how you entered. Good luck!

Enter every day, if you wish! The winner will be announced Monday, July 12. Your one-time-use gift certificate will arrive via email. There may be shipping charges for those living in Canada, or international fees on some products. Start posting those comments and get ready to shop!

Mean Old Mom

2010-06-23T17:22:00.000-07:00

I recently received the following text from my daughter, who has just started college, "Thank you for teaching me how to do laundry". This was one of many texts (like "can taking too much vitamin C turn you orange", and "my boss is selling his Jaguar for only $8,000" that required a little more investigation.

Cassie explained to me that she was doing a couple of loads when some other freshmen entered the laundry room. After asking which machines were the washers, and which were the dryers, one girl panicked because she didn't know that the washer would stop if you lifted the lid. After the initial disbelief and the resultant mocking, Cassie discovered an important truth. Mom wasn't mean, she was just preparing me for life.

My children started doing their laundry in middle school. This was partially because I had four children, but mostly because I didn't want to raise helpless young adults. I had run into many students as a high school teacher who had never given anyone a present, taken care of their clothes, or made an independent purchase. I was very concerned about their future independence.

So, while it may seem like doing everything for your children is an expression of love and support, it's not. After all, if you continue to carry them, they'll never learn to walk.

Underwater Pogo Schtik

2010-06-09T16:06:00.000-07:00

While on a recent trip, I finished reading my novel, and decided to take a look at the “Sky Mall” magazine. In it I found some interesting buys—including some you can’t live without! We’re not just talking your average nose hair trimmer here. You can find awesome for your animal associates,

Perfect Pet Products

You can use the Canine Genealogy kit to analyze your dog’s DNA to discover the breed, physical characteristics, behavioral tendencies, and personality traits. Just in case you haven’t picked up on those things by living with the animal. Get double duty out of your decorating with an end table that’s also a pet crate. Let Fido blend in with the furniture. Or purchase the Kitty Washroom Cabinet to disguise the litter box.

Add a Potty Rock to help with toilet training outside. This cement rock has a built-in scent that encourages pets to “go” in a certain area. Assuming you’re willing to spend money on something that smells like dog urine. Spot tired of taking a daily walk? Get the Pet Wheel-Away and take him for a ride in what is essentially a wheeled suitcase that converts to a backpack.

Household Helpers

What about animals you don’t want? Use the Solar-Powered Mole Repeller to get rid of those pests safely with annoying vibrations. Do you really want to purchase a product that’s designed to be annoying?

Tired of that daily trek to the curb? Get the Step2 Mailbox with the hidden compartment capable of storing up to two weeks of deliveries.

Worried about intruders? Decorate your garden with Bigfoot, the Garden Yeti Statue. A steal at $98.95 plus $15 shipping and handling, guaranteed to keep even friendly neighbors away.

Fun and Games

And finally, the world’s only underwater pogo stick. I can have hours of fun splashing around the pool on this. Designed for use in shallow or deep water, looks like hours of entertainment for the whole family--not!

So, next time you're in the air, check out the assortment of "useful" products in the Sky Mall--worth a laugh!

Book Review - "The Thorn, Book One in the Chronicles of Gan" By Daron Fraley

2010-04-28T01:00:00.000-07:00

Daron Fraley has dared to imagine what life might be like on another planet during the period just prior to Christ's life on earth. Tribes that sprang from a single ancestor are now at war. Biblical prophecies are interwoven with descriptions of a world similar yet far different from ours.

Following a difficult battle, Jonathan finds his father, the emporer, has been killed. As he continues to fight for his clan, he spares the life of a soldier from an enemy tribe. Can men from different clans work together to battle enemies from two different groups bent on total conquest? Will they remain true to each other and overcome the challenges they face?

I really enjoyed this book. The characters are compelling and the storyline will not only draw you in, but hold your attention to the end. The situations feel like stories from the Old Testament, creating a unique blend of fantasy and realism that will stay with you after you finish reading. This book was so interesting that I have recommended it to family members, and can't wait for the next installment.

You can order your copy of "The Thorn" here, and be sure to learn more about the author by visiting his website.

Book Review - "I'll Know You by Heart" by Kimberly Job

2010-04-14T07:00:00.000-07:00

Stephanie Roberts is struggling to escape her emotional ties to an abusive husband while supporting and raising her children alone. Where and how will they live? Can they stay safe? How will her children do without a father's influence? What should she do next?

With her life in turmoil, Stephanie meets Jared Wakefield. Each feels a spark of recognition, but she is not yet free of her past. Will Stephanie be willing to love again? Can she feel whole enough to trust another man? When Jared learns of her former life, will he still be interested?

Kimberly Job's characters are vivid and real. Her sensitive treatment of such difficult topics as abuse, difficulties, and difficulties found in some marriages will help you understand the challenges many face in these situations. This is not a simple "happily every after" romance. You will experience the circumstances and emotions that influence Stephanie's choices and take heart as Stephanie recovers through the healing power of love.

Can't wait to dig into this engrossing and motivating tale of romance? Order "I'll Know You by Heart" here.

Contest Winner #1!

2010-04-12T18:42:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to winner #1 - Cindy Beck! Send me your email address & I'll get your gift card right out!

See the post below and enter to win an autographed copy of (dis) Abilities and the Gospel shipped when it's released in June!

Autism Awareness Month, Book Giveaways and More!

2010-04-02T01:00:00.000-07:00

Celebrate Autism Awareness Month! Wondering what to do?

Wear a puzzle ribbon, have discussions with your friends, investigate bills currently before Congress that deal with disabilities. Click here for more information!

Discover sensory-friendly films for the family here.

Learn how "Build-A-Bear Workshops" are supporting Autism Speaks!

The BEST way to celebrate would be to preorder (dis) Abilities and the Gospel here at a discount price!

In honor of Autism Awareness Month and my new book, (dis) Abilities and the Gospel, My coauthor, Danyelle Ferguson, and I are sponsoring a contest! Prizes will be awarded each week.

You really want to know about the prizes, right?

Week 1 – $10 Gift Card to Autism Speaks

Week 2 – An autographed copy of (dis)Abilities and the Gospel to be mailed in June.

Week 3 – 8x10 Autism Awareness Art Print

Week 4 – An autographed copy of (dis)Abilities and the Gospel to be mailed in June.

How to enter:

1 entry each - FB and/or Tweet about the pre-order w/ link to Valor pre-order link

1 entry each – FB and/or Tweet this contest post w/ link to this post

2 entries each – Blog about Autism Awareness Month & the book order w/ links to both author websites (http://www.queenoftheclan.com/ and http://www.lynndparsons.com)/ and theValor pre-order link. Include the contest information w/ a link to our blog for an extra 2 entries.

3 entries – Sign up for our mailing list (snail mail address) & email newsletter. We will only send stuff to you via snail mail if we have a signing coming to your area. The email newsletters vary, but do not come out more than once per week. Your information will not be shared with anyone outside of the two of us. Email Danyelle at QueenOfTheClan@gmail.com and email Lynn at ldparsons60@gmail.com

5 entries – Pre-order (dis)Abilities and the Gospel. Click here to pre-order.
For us to see your FB & Twitter statuses, you need to make us friends. We'll also have to be invited to view private blogs for your post to be eligible. You are still welcome to blog about the contest and book!

You can enter on each blog. All entries will be combined together and a winner drawn each week. You do not need to leave a separate comment for each entry. Just let us know what you did & we’ll add the entry points to our spreadsheet.

Good luck!

Interview with author Joyce DiPastena

2010-03-26T04:06:00.000-07:00

How long have you been writing?

I’ve been writing silly little stories I never finished since junior high school. When I started a new story my freshman year in college I thought it’d end up the same as all the others…begun but never finished. But this one, my first attempt at a medieval romance, somehow captivated my attention and carried me through all the way to the words “the end”. It took me six years to get there, four years undergraduate and two years of graduate school. Although that book was never published, I’m still in love with its hero to this day!

What genre do you write and why?

I write medieval romances, although I tend to include so much additional plot alongside the romance that I had an agent tell me I don’t really write romances at all. But they’re all romances to me. There may be a lot of other stuff going on…mysteries, assassination attempts, medieval politics…but at the heart of each story is a man and a woman falling in love against all the odds around them.

Where do you get your inspiration to write?

My inspiration comes from many different sources. Sometimes it comes from a book I’ve written before. For example, my first published book, Loyalty’s Web, was based on characters from that first unpublished novel I wrote in college. The hero and heroine of Loyalty’s Web were an elderly married couple in that early romance, and I became curious to find out how they had met and fallen in love, so I wrote Loyalty’s Web to find out the answer.

Sometimes bits and pieces of research will fascinate me and influence how I draw a character’s background. For my second published romance, Illuminations of the Heart, I became interested in the subject of medieval illumination and decided to combine that interest with my new heroine, the daughter of a medieval illuminator from Italy. (Although the novel itself is set in France, like Loyalty’s Web.) During the writing of Illuminations of the Heart, I became interested in the subject of medieval troubadours. So that’s a subject I’m incorporating into the novel I’m writing right now.

Do you ever get writer’s block? What helps you to overcome it?

Writer’s block is a toughie. There was a time I thought I had so many ideas that I’d never get writer’s block. Now I find myself struggling with it quite frequently. I’ve discovered it’s not a lack of ideas that I have. It’s a byproduct of stress. When my stress levels go up, I find it very difficult to “turn off” my worries and focus enough to work on my novels.

The thing that has worked best for me through the years is to set a timer for a specific length of time (an hour, two hours, whatever you can set it for) and tell myself that I don’t have to write anything, but I do have to sit at the computer until the timer goes off. I can’t go get a snack, I can’t play any games, I can’t turn on the TV, I can’t do anything except either stare at my blank computer screen or type something. And that “something” has to have something to do with my new story! Sometimes I only type a handful of words, sometimes I’ll end up typing a stream, but whether out of boredom or inspiration, I don’t think I’ve ever not written something before the timer goes off. And no matter how terrible what I wrote might seem at the time, it almost always ends up moving my story along no matter how microscopically. And I always feel better about myself just for trying.

If you could spend an hour talking to anyone from any time in history, who  would it be? And Why?

King Henry II of England! I fell in love with Henry II back in high school when I first read The Conquering Family by Thomas B. Costain. Not “romantic” love. There was just something about the way his contemporaries described him that stirred a great affection in me for him. He seemed to be one of those rare kings who was actually more interested in trying to improve his country than in simply enjoying the “glory” or “privileges” of his rank. He is described as a man who hated war, even though circumstances forced him to spend most of his adult life at war. He was a man of tremendous energy and intellect. And he laid important foundations to the legal system that we have inherited from England and enjoy ourselves today.

His legacy was marred by his quarrel with Archbishop Thomas á Becket, and the son who succeeded him, Richard the Lionheart, is a more flashy character of legend. But everything I’ve read about Henry II since those high school days has only increased my love and admiration for this man. Loyalty’s Web and Illuminations of the Heart are both set during his lifetime, and although he has not yet actually appeared on the scene in any of my books, the references I make to him, small though they might be, are my own way of paying tribute to this great, underappreciated king.

What is your next project?

Right now, I’m just calling it “my troubadour book”. It’s based on a character from my second book, Illuminations of the Heart, and once again is set in medieval France.

Power round questions:

Uh-oh!

Favorite food? Chocolate chip cookies

Favorite dessert? Umm…chocolate chip cookies

Jeans and T-shirt, or designer clothes? Both! (Well, not really “designer”, but I also like fun, “nice” clothes.)

Guilty pleasure? Chocolate. (If only I felt more guilt than pleasure from it!)

One word that describes you? Shy. Why do you think this interview is taking place on a blog?

Favorite flower? Snapdragons

Favorite sport? If I absolutely, positively MUST be forced to watch a sport, then I’ll choose figure skating.

Where can readers find a copy of Illuminations of the Heart?

Illuminations of the Heart is available in Deseret Bookstores and some Arizona Barnes & Nobles. It can be ordered directly through Barnes & Noble and Borders bookstores, or ordered online at DeseretBook.com (http://deseretbook.com) Amazon.com (http://www.amazon.com), BarnesandNoble.com (http://www.barnesandnoble.com), and Borders.com (http://www.borders.com).

Magical Thinking

2010-03-22T16:24:00.000-07:00

Dr. Dido Green at Tel Aviv University has developed an innovative therapy for children with locomotor problems. She teaches them simple magic tricks. They are motivated because the exercises are fun, and they can impress their friends. This leads to more practice, and a marked improvement in skills.

What's next? She plans to study a group of children to see if magic has an impact on their neurological skills. All with a little instruction, rubber bands, and sponge balls. Impressive.

This is an example of how out-of-the-box thinking can lead to significant breakthroughs. Other recent discoveries have challenged traditional thinking about schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and bullying.

Scientists at the University of California, San Diego, have developed a "life shirt" that interprets the wearer's movements. This device can determine whether the subject has bipolar disorder or schizophrenia. Information from this study will also be used to develop new treatments.

Psychologists at George Mason University have discovered that many adults who were bullies in childhood actually have a form of social anxiety disorder. They suggest working with bullies to increase self control and reduce impulsive behaviors rather than focusing on aggression alone.

The takeaway from all this? When looking at a problem, take a break and try to see the situation through fresh eyes. Look from a new angle and a unique solution may present itself.

Turn off the TV & TALK to your Child!

2010-03-15T19:35:00.000-07:00

Makers of educational videos were stunned when a study from the University of California at Irvine revealed that children aged 12 to 24 months did not improve their vocabularies by watching dvds. After six weeks of tube time, the studied toddlers did not demonstrate they had learned the target words.

After years spent in special education, I believe that expecting children to learn from video content presented in isolation is unrealistic. Children need the following:

Human interaction--talk, sing, read, and encourage infant vocalization
Exposure to symbols of all kinds, including pictures and the written word
Less time in front of video-type entertainment (this actually makes some disabilities, including Autism and ADHD worse)

I still remember waiting for over an hour in a telephone store with my six-month-old son. I spent the time walking down the row of phones telling him the colors. This entertained both of us. A crabby old man approached to inform me that, in his opinion, my baby didn't understand a word. I informed him that I was teaching my child to talk in the same way he had learned--frequent repetition.

Sometimes old-fashioned ways work best.

Contest Winner!

2010-03-01T18:50:00.000-08:00

Congratulations to . . . . . . .

Stephanie, winner of the Pre-Easter Basket of goodies!

Send me your snail mail address (to ldparsons60@gmail.com), and I'll get it on its way!

Pre-Easter Basket Giveaway!

2010-02-19T01:00:00.000-08:00

Biggest giveaway yet!

This lovely basket has hand-knit socks, a hand-knit scarf, and a hand-knit wrap, PLUS vanilla-scented tea lights and chocolate covered cherries! Pamper yourself in warm knits, light the candles, and enjoy the chocolate!

How do you win?

Post this contest with a link on Facebook, Twitter, or your blog. You can enter this way EVERY DAY! (1 entry per posting per day)

Comment and tell me how you pamper yourself. (1 entry each time)

Leave a comment to tell me where you shared the news, and remember only followers can win!

Good luck, everyone! Winner will be announced March 1!

How Gullible are You?

2010-02-15T18:27:00.000-08:00

After listening to endless stories of the Bernie Madoffs of this world, I've been pondering our gullibility. He bilked believers of more than $65 billion dollars, including many who should have spotted this Ponzi scheme.

Nearly three decades ago, I was standing in line in the grocery store. As a newlywed, I had compared prices and stretched our meager food budget to its limit. A well-meaning (but rude) shopper behind me delighted in pointing out my purchases and what she believed were the deficiencies in my diet. I retaliated by mentioning that standing on tile floors causes cancer. I have to admit I enjoyed watching her try make her feet contact the floor as little as possible.

Many years later, I recall trying to teach a group of teens at church not to accept things at face value. I told them we had a new directive to pray only while hopping up & down on one foot. Being good kids, they kept trying (it's hard to hop on one foot with your eyes closed) until I told them it was a lesson on confirming sources of information.

Several years ago my father called from California all excited about investing in oil wells in Texas, where I live. Spotting several red flags, including a limited time offer, I got him to hold off until I could investigate. The Better Business Bureau informed me the file they had forwarded to the State's Attorney was over an inch thick. That was all I needed to know.

Being well-educated, well-heeled, or well-informed was no protection. Even Morley Safer of 60 Minutes was bamboozled on camera (see http://bit.ly/aCAN4p for the video).

What are we to do? First of all, stop. Take a breath. Try not to let your emotions (especially greed) interfere with your decisions. Research your sources. If you're not sure where to start, call or visit the reference desk at your local library.

Most importantly, as the stories above reveal, double check everything. Especially if it comes from a prankster. Like me!

New Giveaway!

2010-02-12T09:31:00.000-08:00

Jenni James is having a giveaway in honor of her upcoming book, Northanger Alibi on her blog at http://authorjennijames.blogspot.com/. Check it out--the buzz is that this is a GREAT novel!

A Winner and a Trip!

2010-02-08T16:44:00.000-08:00

Congratulations to Grum, who won my gently used copy of "The Crayon Messages" by Christine Thackeray! Send your snail mail address to ldparsons60@gmail.com and I'll get it on its way!

Last weekend I went to Tucson to see the blessing of grandson #2, James Connor Parsons.

My husband and I love being grandparents, especially when he gets to play trains with William!

Another fun part is going to the zoo. The Tuscon Zoo takes about an hour, which is just right for a nearly three-year-old. We got to see the elephants being trained.

And saw many peacocks, one of which was an albino! New to us!

We also got a chance to attend the "Tucson Gem and Mineral Show". Loads of very cool things to see, and great jewelery to buy. People from all over the world were there, speaking many languages. Everyone seemed to understand the phrase "How much?" We even had an Australian offer us a pedicab ride back to our car! One highlight was this man pulling a wagon selling coconuts. The outsides had been removed, and when you bought one, he whipped out his machete, whacked off the top, flipped out the extra piece, stuck in a straw and a spoon, and handed you an icy treat! Heather bought one to take home to her hubby, but just had to sample some (as you can see). It was almost her birthday, after all!

We had a blast, and were sad to leave, but looking forward to the next time!

Value of the Unexpected, and a Contest!

2010-02-02T16:15:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was my birthday. My coworkers did an AWESOME job of helping me celebrate, as did my family.

A couple of weeks ago, my husband took me shopping for birthday gifts. I picked out a white blouse, a new jacket, and some boots. When we returned home, he put them in his closet for safekeeping.

In the meantime, life went on. I couldn't find my brown jacket. I wear it all the time because it goes with so many things. I hadn't left it in either office, the car, or anywhere else. I wondered if I had left it at church or a friend's house.

Imagine my surprise when I unwrapped my presents . . . including my old jacket. My husband had gathered it with the rest and it had been hanging safely in my closet. I was just as excited to see this "old friend" as for my new treasures.

Looking for a new treasure that could very well become an old friend?

I'm giving away my copy of Christine Thackeray's book, "The Crayon Messages". See my blog post of January 26 for my review. Loved the book.

Leave a comment telling me which of the following you've done to win:

Posted this on facebook with a link (1 entry)
Blogged about the contest with a link (2 entries)
Tweeted with a link (1 entry)
Left a thoughtful comment sharing an unexpected treasure you have found (1 entry)

Remember--must be a follower to win!

Winner will be chosen Tuesday Morning, February 9.

Good luck!

Congratulations, Sandra!

2010-01-30T12:15:00.001-08:00

The winner of the maroon socks is Sandra Cooper!

Look for a new contest Monday!

Running Out of Time!

2010-01-28T17:00:00.000-08:00

So far, only one entry to win these lovely socks!

As the winter winds blow in, imagine your toasty toes curled up with hot chocolate and a good book!

Post this with a link on Twitter, Facebook, or your blog for an entry to win. Contest ends Friday night! Winner announced Saturday morning--so don't delay!

Be sure to leave a comment telling me how you entered!

Good luck!

"Crayon Messages" by Christine Thackeray Book Review

2010-01-26T16:57:00.000-08:00

Have you ever been lonely in a new place? Had your well-meaning actions misunderstood? Worried about an errant teen? Wondered if your best would ever be good enough?

Then you can relate to Cath, the main character in "Crayon Messages" by Christine Thackeray. Despite the many challenges facing this mother of four, we can all feel inspired by her persistence. You'll laugh out loud as she battles toilet-papering teens, hot fudge, and her fears.

This book is as fun to read as it is encouraging. I loved the characters, and hope the author writes a sequel.

More socks!

2010-01-23T05:08:00.001-08:00

Enter to win another pair of cozy hand knit socks by:

1. Posting a link to this contest on Facebook.
2. Tweeting (with a link).
3. Blogging (also with a link).

Must be a follower to win! Leave a comment to tell me how you entered.

This pair is maroon. Photo to come soon!

Contest will be open until Saturday, January 30.

Cozy Feet Winner!

2010-01-20T04:42:00.000-08:00

The winner of the new socks is . . . . (drum roll, please!) . . . . Rebecca Talley!!! I hear you just won a book, so this is your lucky week!

Send me your snail mail address to ldparsons60@gmail.com and I'll send them right out!

Thanks to Random Choice for selecting the winner.

Watch for another sock giveaway in a few days!

Free Socks--Running Out of Time!

2010-01-19T16:02:00.000-08:00

Imagine your happy toes luxuriating in these soft, fluffy, warm socks! Put them on after a long, hard day, or when it's cold outside.

Today is the last day to enter to win the free hand knit socks! Winners will be chosen tomorrow morning.

Contest is only open to followers, and you can enter by posting on facebook with a link, tweeting with a link, and blogging with a link, and post a comment here to tell me what you've done.

Good luck--and if there is a big response, more sock giveaways will be in your future!

Silent Warrior Trilogy

2010-01-18T17:27:00.000-08:00

The Silent Warrior Trilogy is complete!

The saga started with book one, The Elf and the Princess:

Menarm was a great and prosperous kingdom, known throughout the lands for its friendly, hard-working people and fair trade. But a bitter struggle of succession between brothers left the kingdom devastated, the people divided. Some stayed with Fenil, who had conquered the crown, others followed Renil to the north, founding a new kingdom.

Now Adren, the last princess of the vanquished realm of Menarm, finds herself alone in a world where women live in the shadows of men. Not only must she battle her enemies, but also a truth that could obliterate her last hope for happiness and bring dishonor to all those whom she hold dear. On her quest, she finds unlikely allies in a powerful prince and a defiant mercenary, only to be devastated by an ancient elf.

Book two, Trouble in the Elf City:

It’s been three years since the war between the Orks and Tahitans destroyed the proud kingdom of Menarm. Adren, the land’s last princess, has settled comfortably into her new life as wife to the elf Dellin in the kingdom of Lothia.

But all is not well. And when a mysterious enemy shatters their peace, an enemy the elfs appear powerless to fight, complete annihilation seems imminent. Will Adren witness the destruction of yet another kingdom and once again find herself alone in the world? Or can the Silent Warrior come to her rescue and save them all?

Book Three, Elfs in a Conquered Realm:

King Paletin and Adren, the last Princess of Menarm, set forth on their mission with a team to find the hidden treasures of the now vanquished Kingdom of Menarm. Led by the young strategist, Zyrthal, the team is strong in number and sure of purpose, yet they find themselves facing ruthless mercenaries who are determined to claim the kingdom’s riches for themselves.

Once again, the Silent Warrior is called upon to rescue the captured team, but he has begun to battle demons of his own and has become unsure of his abilities as the champion of Adren. The shadows in his heart become all the more magnified with the disappearance of the two half-elf princes from the dead kingdom.

Front Street Reviews has praised Dye’s works as “fluid and flawless” and has said in their complimentary review of Elfs in a Conquered Realm that “it should come as no surprise that one will find this story as fulfilling as the first two in the trilogy. Her talent for writing fantasy will leave her name forever entrenched in our memories as we hope to read more of her stories long into the future.

Giveaway - Sony Reader Pocket Edition

2010-01-16T09:20:00.000-08:00

See the "Book Giveaways" blog at http://bookgiveaways.blogspot.com/ for how to enter to win a Sony Reader Pocket Edition (value $199) for free!

Cami's Still Giving Books Away!

2010-01-14T19:03:00.000-08:00

Enter to win a copy of "My Son, John", and read a review at http://camicheckettsbooks.blogspot.com/2010/01/giveaway-my-son-john-by-kathi-macias.html.

'Tis the season for contests!

And keep entering to win the socks! Many entries will show me that I need to make another pair for a future contest!

First Winner and New Contest!

2010-01-13T04:29:00.000-08:00

Congratulations to my first winner! And the proud recipient of "Eat This, Not That!" is Sue Layne! Send me your snail mail address, and I'll get it right to you!

Thanks to "Random Choice" for selecting the winner.

This week's contest:
Do you have cold feet? I have this pair of hand-knitted socks to keep your toes toasty!
All winners must be blog followers, and to get an entry:
1. Posting about this contest on Facebook gets you one entry.
2. Tweeting earns you an entry.
3. Make a comment for one entry.

Good luck!

"Save the Child"

2010-01-12T19:07:00.000-08:00

Margaret Turley's new book, "Save the Child", will be out in late February/early March. It deals with the parents' rights to make medical decisions for their children.

Her "Save the Child" blog has interviews with doctors and tons more information on this subject. You can read all about it at http://margaretturley.com/

***Don't forget today is the last day to enter to with "Eat This, Not That!"***

Positively Negative!

2010-01-09T08:17:00.000-08:00

I've been thinking a lot this week about impressions. There are those we give by mistake, those we erroneously form, and a few that are correct.

A few weeks ago, the wind caught my door as I got out of my car and banged it into the protective strip on the door of the car next to me. There was no actual damage, just a little dirt, which I managed to wipe off. The irate occupant of the vehicle in question leaped out, and accused me of deliberately trying to damage her door.

I explained what happened, then demonstrated where the door had hit and showed her there was no damage. She was still very upset, so I offered to exchange insurance information. She declined, so I apologized again and started towards the store.

After entering, I felt impressed to turn around, and I saw her taking pictures of my license plate! Afraid she would accuse me of hit & run, or other damage to her car (there were other previous door dings), I went back outside, and again offered my insurance information. She declined again, so I called the police.

I'm sure the officer thought I was a nut ball, but I wanted him to witness that there was no damage and that I was trying to do the right thing. I just felt that I needed protection from whatever revenge this crazy lady was plotting.

Nothing happened as a result, but what I think upset me most was her characterization of me as someone who deliberately goes around damaging the property of others. It seemed that nothing I did could correct this impression.

Mom was right. First impressions are the most lasting.

First Giveaway Contest

2010-01-06T01:00:00.000-08:00

In honor of the new year, and the resolutions we all make, I'll be giving away a copy of "Eat This, Not That" by David Zinczenko.

How can you win????

First, you must be a follower of my blog.

You will receive 1 entry if you feature this contest with a link on facebook, Twitter, or your blog. Post a comment and tell me what you've done. A winner will be drawn on January 13.

Happy self-improvement!

Cami's Contest

2010-01-04T15:58:00.000-08:00

Enter to win a free copy of "Where the Wind Blows" by Caroline Fyffe at http://camicheckettsbooks.blogspot.com/2009/12/beat-winter-blahs-giveaway.html . She has giveaways all month long, so check back often.

Watch this space for my contest information tomorrow!

Book Review: "By Love or By Sea" by Rachel Rager

2010-01-04T15:32:00.000-08:00

From Amazon.com:
"When a mysterious and ragged sailor appears in the seaside town where Alice Lind Frank lives with her grandparents, Alice is shocked to learn that the sailor is her childhood love, Caleb, who she thought was lost at sea. She yearns to trust him again, but what about her plans to marry Clarence Hielott, the wealthy shipyard owner? When Clarence exposes the secrets of Caleb s past, Alice realizes that the boy she once knew is now a man with a dark history. Can she trust Caleb with her heart once again? And what will she do about Clarence? Find out in this thrilling and adventurous love story."

This book was a fun read, with great characters and enough plot twists and turns to keep me wanting more! My 17-year-old daughter enjoyed reading it, also.

New Year, New Stuff!

2009-12-31T09:49:00.000-08:00

I've decided that 2010 will start with giveaways. There will be books and loads of other fun stuff. Watch for the first contest to be announced on Wednesday, January 6! I love giving things away!

My first great giveaway was through Cub Scout Day Camp many years ago. We had hats from the US Navy, tokens for free ice cream sundaes, cool bands, and tons of other stuff. That was so much fun.

When my son, John, was planning his Eagle Scout project, he decided to do a children's health fair. He had so many free things, from videos to stuffed animals, that nearly every child who attended took home a prize.

Sooo, look for the contests, and enjoy your free stuff!

Focus, Focus, Focus!

2009-12-23T08:39:00.000-08:00

As I contemplate the beginning of another year, I have loads of plans. Many include travel for family events. My oldest son will graduate with his PhD this year from a school in Arizona. My second son just received his BS, and will earn a Master's by next Christmas in Utah. My youngest is a senior in high school who would like to have her siblings (plus one currently going to school in Idaho) with her at graduation. My father-in-law will turn 90 in June in Philadelphia.

My other plans include trips to promote my book, including a conference in Utah in April, and a book launch party also in Utah in June.

My concerns focus on money. How to afford all of this?

I had already decided to diet before my upcoming adventures. Now I see I also need a financial diet. Back to my roots of couponing, shopping sales, and asking "Do we really need this?"

I begin today. Although the holidays are far from over, I resolve to cut down on the calories, ramp up the exercise, and squeeze those pennies until they scream.

I'll let you know how it's going.

Great Tamale Caper

2009-12-19T18:58:00.000-08:00

Tamales in Texas are a Christmas tradition. I'm from California, so this isn't native to me . . . although I've been here 22 years . . . as this story demonstrates!

About a month ago, I ordered some tamales from a coworker. Being fairly new on the job, I didn't realize I had ordered four dozen!

The day they were delivered, I was out with a stomach bug. The next day I paid for my order, which had been stowed in the office refrigerator.

Not being 100% up to speed, I ran out to another building leaving the poor tamales behind. The next day, while at another campus, I received a text from my officemate reminding me to pick up my order. I was told they were the only ones left. I called a different coworker and offered her the tamales. She also forgot to take them home.

Friday was the last day before the district closed down for Christmas Break. I had another text from my officemate reminding me again. Another coworker on my campus offered to buy them from me, so we zipped over, I ran in, snagged the bag, and flew out again.

Another telephone call from another coworker. I had taken her bag . . . which was 8 short due to a late night she had worked. I told her not to worry about this, but she insisted on leaving 8 in the freezer for me to pick up in January.

Looks like another tamale run after the break!

Marketing, marketing, marketing!

2009-12-19T07:54:00.000-08:00

We're looking for bloggers! Specifically those who have children with special needs, teach those with special needs, or any type of religious leaders! Send me the contact information and we'll get them set up!

Rollin' with the punches!

2009-12-17T15:26:00.001-08:00

Today I found out I had to test a kid at the last minute, have a few unexpected gifts to give to coworkers tomorrow, and my kids told me new things they want for Christmas. . . .

Here's to being flexible and rolling with the punches!

No Coincidences!

2009-12-14T15:44:00.000-08:00

I picked up my daughter, Cassie, after school, and ran to the grocery store. On the way home, we passed the library. Cassie had mentioned she needed some books to prepare for the AP English test, so I impulsively asked her if she wanted to stop.

After a lap around the building to look for a parking place, I had a great time browsing the new books section. I sat down to take a peek and see if these books were really good choices. I noticed my old friend, Don Payne, talking to the librarian.

I decided to tease Don about buying (dis) Abilities in the Gospel when it comes out. He always gives as good as he gets, asking me why I didn't get him to illustrate it. The librarian then offered to host a book signing after publication. I happily agreed!

Don then approached me as I left, pointing out that I needed to record this in my journal because "There are no coincidences!"

I agree.

Delightful Students

2009-12-12T15:11:00.000-08:00

One of the more fun parts of my job is working with students. I enjoy observations, but it's even more fun to challenge them and find out how each one learns.

I was blessed to be able to work with an especially delightful young man last week. He has a positive attitude about everything, is possibly the most polite person I have ever met, and just generally a joy to be around.

Why is this student so wonderful? I "blame" his parents. They have taken the time to teach him good grooming, manners, and how to adapt to new situations. They have a close-knit extended family for support, and work together to make sure this youth has what he needs. This child also has support for his academics, and I'm sure this will continue as he learns job skills.

Despite his disabilities, he has a great outlook on life, and is a hard worker. I predict he will have a wonderful life!

I wonder if I can get these great people to teach a parenting class?

Back in the Saddle

2009-12-09T17:24:00.000-08:00

So much has happened, so many changes have taken place in a short period of time!

I've decided to reactivate this blog because it has better links, and I was struggling to log in to the other each day--technical difficulties!

I plan to post Wednesdays and Saturdays. We'll see how it goes!

Random thoughts for today--I worry about the parents who have been stuck in the grief cycle. When you discover a family member has a disability, you need to go through a grief process similar to when there is a death. I've seen many who are stuck in a spiraling cycle of anger. Previously I had only seen those who took their anger out on school personnel. Now I know of some who take their anger out on their children. This is the saddest thing of all.

Just Starting Out!

2009-07-09T15:36:00.000-07:00

The time has come to start a new blog. My former teacher blog is so out of date I can't even log in anymore. So, I'll transfer the information and hope someone is helped!